5 Tips To Keep Your Kids Safe Online

Kid Using Computer

In-keeping with the theme of this year’s Safer Internet Day on February 7th, I encourage families to work together to educate each other in safe online participation and to ‘Discover the Digital World Together, Safely!’

Recent research into Internet use by teenagers conducted by OpinionMatters revealed that one in three parents do not know if Internet safety tips are being taught to their children, while nearly 25% of teens confirm they are not taught, or are not aware of being taught, about Internet safety at school.

Furthermore, 31% of teens admit they have shared information with an acquaintance online that they would not have said face-to-face, while almost a third of teenage boys admit to visiting web sites intended for adults. Over half (53%) of those who have done so admit to lying about their age to gain access.

Ubiquitous use of social networking web sites has revolutionised the way we all communicate and interact. In particular, it has changed the way our children communicate with their friends and meet new people, while making it harder for parents to check on who their children are associating with.

The Safer Internet Day message of families educating each other about safe online life is extremely important. I encourage parents to ensure that their children are enjoying all the great benefits of the Internet, without being exposed to the risks and unsuitable corners of online life that are not child-friendly.

I encourage families to follow these simple steps to ensure they stay safe and secure online:

1. Check links before clicking on them

With increased malicious use of short URL services to disguise links to malware and fake web sites, it’s important to be sure about the links you click on in emails, on social networking sites and on conventional web pages. Everyone should always hover over a hyperlinked word or sentence and view what the link is before clicking. If it is a short URL such as TinyURL or a Bit.ly-style link, always approach with caution and only click through if you are absolutely sure it’s from a trustworthy sender.

2. Don’t reveal personal information online

Never post anything online that you wouldn’t share with a stranger you met in the street. Make sure that social networking settings, especially for children’s accounts, are set so that only approved friends can view information about you or your children, and vet who is following your family online. Never reveal your movements and your plans to be away from home online, especially on social networking services such as Facebook and Twitter.

3. Don’t be afraid to check on children’s Internet use

You wouldn’t let young children play unsupervised, so you shouldn’t feel compelled to let them surf the Web without a watchful eye making sure they are safe. Do look at what your children are doing, share with them advice on being careful online and explain why they shouldn’t be doing things like talking to strangers in chat rooms and IM, or posting publicly-viewable personal details on social networking sites.

4. Keep your PC safe and secure

Web filtering software can provide a handy safety buffer, preventing access to known dangerous web sites plus any sites that parents want to limit access to. Antispam software minimises exposure to unwanted and scam messages. But most importantly, ensure you have antivirus software installed and that it is up-to-date with the latest virus definition files. Research revealed that only 28% of parents update their antivirus software daily, and 24% are unsure if their antivirus software is updated at all.

5. Internet safety goes beyond the web

Remember that internet access is not confined to PCs and web browsers. Gaming services on consoles also provide a means for strangers to engage with children via chat and IM within popular games, while mobile phones are starting to displace desktop and laptop PCs as the primary way that teens access the Internet according to research from the UK telecoms regulator Ofcom. Ensure parental controls are activated on all these services so that you can prevent, or at least check, when children are contacting or being contacted by strangers or new gaming contacts.

Mark Patton has over 30 years of software development experience. Before being promoted to General Manager, he was GFI’s Vice President of Research and Development. Mark joined GFI following the acquisition of Sunbelt Software, where he managed their research and development teams as well as all quality assurance. He was previously VP of Engineering with Fortis Software. Prior to Fortis, he was with Microsoft, where he served in the product development teams for BackOffice and the .NET framework. Before that, Mark served as Director of Product Development at Diskeeper Corporation. Mark holds a Master's degree in Mechanical Engineering from Michigan Technological University.